Life is not easy and making new friends is more difficult than living life!
You know there is a way in which you can make sure that whenever you meet someone for the first time, the person leaves the shed with a lot of positive impact about you? It is all psychological you see! So well, here are some tips that might help you!
Be prepared and presentable
No matter what the occasion is, understand that first impression is indeed the last impression and so always be presentable! Do some research about the place you are going at or speech you gonna give next or stuff like that and make sure to be very presentable!
You don’t have to look like the Greek God of looks to be presentable, just dress smart!
Assuming something is possibly the last thing you should do if you want new people in your life. Assuming too much can turn out to be too harmful!
Don’t be afraid
Confidence is possibly the most attractive trait of any human. Use it as your super power and people will die to be a part of your life! Trust me!
Go out and explore more. Explore new things, new jobs, new language, new places etc. Let the world know that you aren’t boring and know how to live your life to fullest! People Will Appreciate that!
Don’t wait for the other person to make the first move
If you like something or someone, go, get it! Do not wait for the other person to make a move!
Know what to say
One of the most important things that all of us should learn is the art of knowing what to say when!
Be honest and truthful
Nothing can match the beauty of an honest person. Be honest, it can do wonders for your life!
Avoid negative topics
Stop spreading negativity. In fact, stay away from anything negative! The positive your environment is, the more positive your life becomes!
If you are genuinely interested in talking to someone, then not only words and facial expressions should be good, but your body language should also tell them that you are interested. Let the other person know that you are looking forward to have more conversations with them.
Let’s say that you are sitting! If you sit in a modest yet an inviting position, it tells the other person that you are not fooling around and want a genuine and possibly a meaningful conversation.
Respect the other person
Show some respect to others. Be it the way you talk or behave, make sure that you do not end up disrespecting anyone!
Stay in touch
Don’t be clingy but stay in touch. Maybe drop in a message once in a while or something!
Take small steps
Take small steps towards everything. Understand that things never happen overnight outside the world of cinema!
Maintain your friendship
And finally, if you successfully get new people in your life, maintain your friendship with them! Do not let it loose at any point!
Source : Genmice