Men may not be good at wording their emotions, but they are more than clear when it comes to putting them into action. Most of them were raised to be tough and steady bastions of power and safety that their close ones can retreat to whenever they are in danger or pain.
Therefore, vulnerable is something that is not common for them, but it is not impossible. In fact, when they are in love they become vulnerable in a different way – they show their love through their actions.
So, when a man does these 7 things for you, you can be sure that you are the only woman for him.
1. He is your biggest cheerleader.
When a man truly loves you, he loves and cherishes all of you. He is happy for everything you achieve because your success is his success. He is your biggest supporter and your most devoted fan. He absolutely adores everything you do and everything you are.
2. He values your opinion.
A man who loves you deeply will care about what you think and what you have to say. He will value your opinions and your thoughts on important subjects. Yes, he wants to know what are your political, business, or religious beliefs. He also wants to know what you think your future home should look like. Your opinions on big or small things matter to a man who loves you.
3. He goes out of his way for you.
When you need him, he will stop anything he is doing and come running to help you. Yes, a man who is in love with you will find a way to be there for you when you need him because you are his true love. Nothing is too difficult, and no one is more important than you.
4. He protects you.
A man will put himself in danger if the woman he loves is in trouble. He will shield you from any external and internal damages and traumas. He will kiss your scars. He will hug your emotional wounded self. He will try anything to heal you and protect you from future physical as well as emotional pain.
5. He listens. (And remembers!)
When a man is in love with you he will listen to you eagerly, even if you are talking about trivial day-to-day things. Everything you say will be important to him. Moreover, he will remember every detail of your conversation because he wants to know everything about you – from the types of music you are into to how you like your coffee.
6. He feels your pain.
When you are hurting, he is hurting as well. When you are happy, he is happy. He is so in tune with your emotions because he is connected to you on a deep level. And when you are in pain, he physically feels pain too and feels that he has somehow failed to protect you. So, he will try to ease your pain because no one wants to see their loved ones hurt.
7. He respects and loves you for who you are.
In a world of disposable relationships and superficial beauty, you can easily recognize a man who is truly in love. He will not care about your physical appearance. He will love all of you – your virtues as well as your flaws.
And this is the kind of love that is worth the wait.