We live in a time in which women who are single are pitied for not having a partner and they are usually portrayed as unhappy, unfulfilled, isolated, and lonely.
But the truth is that when it comes to women and their love life, being in a relationship should not be regarded as a criterion for happiness.
Because single women don’t base their happiness and success on their relationship status.
Because women who stay single for a large period of time aren’t unhappy, lonely, miserable, or emotionally troubled.
Because they don’t need a partner so as to feel happy and fulfilled – they already are.
Because they defy the modern stereotypes that say they should feel bad and less worthy for not having a romantic partner.
As for the reasons why some women remain single for large gaps of time, well, there’s plenty of them.
Maybe they aren’t accustomed to being someone’s ‘girlfriend’ and perhaps they were even single during their high-school years.
Maybe they’ve had a couple of exes who abandoned them and broke their hearts.
Maybe they went out on a couple of dates since they broke up with their last boyfriend, but the dates never turned into exclusive romantic relationships.
Or perhaps they’ve decided to stay single because they needed a break from the overwhelming dating world.
Irrespective of the reason, women who stay single for a large amount of time end up the happiest, and here’s why:
They end up the happiest since they embrace their solitude. They’re comfortable with who they are. They don’t mind going shopping for clothes alone or eating lunch at their favorite restaurant by themselves.
They don’t feel lonely sleeping alone. They don’t feel awkward about going to weddings by themselves.
They don’t feel unhappy or lonely just because they don’t have a romantic partner to share their experiences with – they’re comfortable with their solitude and they enjoy their own company.
They end up the happiest since they have plenty of time to focus on their needs, their goals, and their passions. They have all the time in the world to figure out what they truly need and want in life and go for it as well.
They end up the happiest since they pursue their goals, dreams, and passions instead of giving up on them. They have plenty of time to figure out what’s important to them in life and sort out their priorities.
They end up the happiest since they get more connected to their friends, family, and co-workers. They stay close to them, not drift apart.
They end up the happiest since they embrace their independence. They’re able to take care of themselves and make a living on their own. They believe in themselves and they’re able to build a happy, meaningful, enjoyable life for themselves.
They end up the happiest since they understand that a romantic partner does not need to be the center of their world. He does not need to be the only thing they think about.
Instead of spending their time chasing after guys, these women chase after the things they want to achieve in life and the future they want for themselves.
Women who don’t date anyone for large periods of time aren’t scared of the idea of staying single forever or never getting married – they are used to living their lives that way.
Spending their lives alone or in silence doesn’t make them feel afraid or lonely – moreover, they enjoy living this way. To them, solitude is not frightening – it’s inspiring.
And if they do meet someone and decide to start a relationship, it is going to be someone who encourages them to achieve even more happiness and success.
Someone who is already happy, fulfilled, and successful on his own. Someone who is as smart and strong as they are and someone who is able to keep up with them in every aspect of life.
It’s going to be someone that feels happy that his woman has her own goals, plans, dreams, and passions and that she’s in control of her life. Someone who feels happy when she achieves her goals and also encourages her to pursue higher ones. Someone who makes her feel stronger, happier, and more fulfilled than she already is.
Because these women will never give up on their independence, individuality, and strength. They’ll never give up on their goals, dreams, and desires and forget who they are in the process of loving someone.
They’ll never be with someone who might prevent them from living an authentic, genuinely happy and meaningful life.